Does negative and insecure feelings go hand in hand? Can negative feelings be spread to others just like how contagious laughter or yawning does? Somehow when pple are feeling depressed or what, I'll somewhat get affected too.
It doesn't help when e other party just refuses to get positive stuffs into their heads and keep drowning themselves in their own negative thoughts. Being a gd listener isn't easy at all. A lot of patience is required as well.
Came across the TV programme the other day on an inspiring story of a girl diagnose with Type 1 diabetes during childhood. She got depressed during her growing up stage due to feeling left out from her click as she didn't participate in most activities and also from e fear of her frens when they learnt abt her illness and started avoiding her. Went for counseling subsequently and got better. One day, she finally found out her "love", ie. having tattoos on her body. She took a year to convince her parents to let her do it by letting them know that there isn't much risk involved if the wound is well-taken care of. Since then, she got more tattoos on her body which healed exceptionally well except for one that was infected but still recovered later on. She's a very good life example of someone who cherish life like never before and proudly live life like any normal person. She even said that if it's not this illness, she wouldn't have done what she's doing now and she would be a very lazy person. Isn't it a blessing in disguise?
The road ahead is still long for many of us. I hope we can always use a positive attitude to face problems. I know it's not easy. I've failed many times but I will still keep trying. We should all learn to be contented with life in order to cherish and love life better. Challenges aren't really bad, it's thru those trials that make us stronger!!
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